Family Education V.S. Domestic Violence 3.1

Few mounths ago, there raised a discussion about tiger-typed mom and elephant-typed mom. The previous one, which meant they educated children more strictly, represented Asian parents, while the other stood for western parents, which were relatively free. And the reason why tiger-typed parents came to spotlight was many methods they used were considered domestic violence, so everyone started to question the difference between family education and domestic violence. Recently a case of a famous icon ,Chia chia, attracted the attention of the society and raised the discussion again because her father posted her crying photo and a broken Ukulele to explain the way he punished Chis-chia. Some people may support the strict attitude of Chia-chia’s father, but more people condemned him for that his post would hurt Chis-chia’s self-respect and that his breaking Ukulele was kind of domestic violence. Maybe this severe action could made a child to remind herself of not to doing again, but the worst ending might be this child would be afraid of trying to communicate with this angry father. Nothing could go through without trace; it always left shadows in children’s mind. So maybe it is true that stick and blameful word is more effectual than love education, we also have to afford a more terrible side effect.