Love me tender, teach me hard 3.2

To discuss the difference between violence and education, it is a good idea to start from researching the result these two way would cause. People says that parents' way to teach would influence their children's way to teach kids. There are many research talking about how kids grow up under different disciplines, such as children who were often hit and scold by his/her parents would probably treat their children as the same way. It must not be deliberately for those who were mistreated to use the same method to teach their own kids, but his/her reaction to this kind of trauma would lead to two direction; to grow up strongly and treat his/her kids better or to grow up with bad mental state and treat his/her kids worst. So that's why we have to pay attention to the difference between violence and education because no parents would consider their measures are classify to violence, but we can't let children keep being mistreated. It is necessary to set a standard to judge from, and we still have long way to go.

Family Education V.S. Domestic Violence 3.1

Few mounths ago, there raised a discussion about tiger-typed mom and elephant-typed mom. The previous one, which meant they educated children more strictly, represented Asian parents, while the other stood for western parents, which were relatively free. And the reason why tiger-typed parents came to spotlight was many methods they used were considered domestic violence, so everyone started to question the difference between family education and domestic violence. Recently a case of a famous icon ,Chia chia, attracted the attention of the society and raised the discussion again because her father posted her crying photo and a broken Ukulele to explain the way he punished Chis-chia. Some people may support the strict attitude of Chia-chia’s father, but more people condemned him for that his post would hurt Chis-chia’s self-respect and that his breaking Ukulele was kind of domestic violence. Maybe this severe action could made a child to remind herself of not to doing again, but the worst ending might be this child would be afraid of trying to communicate with this angry father. Nothing could go through without trace; it always left shadows in children’s mind. So maybe it is true that stick and blameful word is more effectual than love education, we also have to afford a more terrible side effect.